I’ve actually been feeling this same way for the past month myself. Not fully understanding what I’m going through at the moment, but I do know that a lot of has to do with taking on too much and neglecting myself and putting myself in situations that I either didn’t take the time to think through or that I am not totally comfortable with, but doing it “because I need too”. I too have been feeling defeated, alone and empty..Not sure how long it will last, but in this moment, I think I need to do some soul searching and work on myself.

Hang in there girl..you’re not alone xoxo

Wow you are not alone. Ps. If you take comfort in anything about writing that entry it’s that there are probably more than a handful of your readers who feel the same.

We have everything going in out life yet we feel empty or blah. You are not alone.

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Hey Krissy Look how far you’ve come! Don’t be hard on yourself. You are in a rut, happens all the time. Clarity will come when you lighten up on yourself and allow that open space for inspiration to seep in and give you a new mission statement Go out for a walk and window shop. Tune into what you like, see, feel. Being outside seems to always change my mood.

Welcome to the club ladies…

Everything Robyn said and I know of a few more in the same boat.

Even those little things that you do for yourself (manicures, curl up with good book, a night in with friends) has left me feeling blah.

Is there a way busy women like us can just “step away” from life for a bit? That way we can get some perspective?

Awww ladies thank you so much, your replies have put a smile on my face. Really and truly THANK YOU ! It feels great to know that I am not the only one. All of this is great advice that I will take in and apply.

I am sure I will get over this soon, I just need to shake it off.

To RR- Please let me know if you find a way for women like us to “step away” from life for a bit” lol I need to get on that train.

Thank you again…

i’ve been feeling this way for a a couple of years now. there are times when it just gets to that point where like you, i just want to lay in my bed and sleep and cry all day but that isnt an option for me, so then i just feel like i want to run away from it all and just hide out from everyone and everything. there are times where it peaks and its asphyxiating to say the least but then you think of all those other times u’ve felt like this and how u’ve overcome it and u just think to urself “it’ll be ok” and IT WILL truly be ok.

i dont know u but the perception i get from u is that u r a very accomplished woman and it takes confidence, strength and courage to make it. i always look back at all those other times that i’ve used my strengths to get me through adversities, i’m sure if u do the same u’ll realise u can ge through whatever is troubling u right now.

Everyone has kife days.

Feel better soon, and know you’re not alone.

xx

Thank you

Keep your chin up!! I know it’s hard to been strong all the time. Make sure you do something that makes you feel good. It could be as simple as opening a door for someone or smiling at a stranger. I like that you keep things real on your blog since it’s so much easier to hide behind a mask.

What kind words ! Thank you for the compliment. I hope that everyone can come here, and keep it real. Everyone needs to let it out sometimes, and know they aren’t the only ones.

Hi Mafa,

You words are very true, it is a feeling that passes. Definitely helps to think of times that I have been here and overcome it. I can say that all of these positive words have helped me greatly. THANK YOU. I hope that I can be there to help you as well the next time you feel this way. Thank you for the compliments they mean a lot.