I always have the best blog topics after talking with my girlfriends. It’s so funny how random it always comes up. So here we are on the topic of PEOPLE… yeah PEOPLE. We had a bit of a discussion on how some PEOPLE (yes it needs to be in caps) are in their own categories. You know those PEOPLE, we all know those PEOPLE. The ones who don’t bend, don’t try to understand where you are coming from, don’t even wanna hear what you have to say. They are right for everything. They remind me of children those PEOPLE, it’s like no one can control them, do or say anything to stop their unacceptable behavior. We tolerate them and have always tolerated them. We came to the conclusion that, those PEOPLE are that way because no one ever dared to tell them that they were wrong. No one ever had the guts to tell them “CHECK YOURSELF”, instead just like those whining children in the mall, someone let them throw a fit and gave them their way. I am sure that’s the type of children they were.
Now as adults, how can we expect them to be any different. They have always been allowed to act as they pleased and have always gotten their way. Of course they are never gonna change, why should they? They don’t know any other way and their way has always worked for them.
So we were left thinking “Are they the problem?” , “Are we the problem?”… Regardless of all that, the fact that they won’t even hear anyone else because their way is the best and only way, is quite annoying. I don’t even know how I can have a conversation or a relationship with someone who is like that. So those PEOPLE… Yes I know you know them too. They belong in a class of their own, not for being wrong, because no one is perfect. They belong in their own class, simply for thinking that they NEVER have to listen to anyone else and THEY are the only normal ones. I mean, who told them their way was the right way to begin with?
Do you have any of those PEOPLE in your life? How do you deal with them?
