Comments on: Those “People”…

By: SaBa

SaBa — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 04:11:03 +0000

OK so I totally agree with Flo King…like sometimes people say things to you that is so inconsiderate or self-focused and in your head you’re thinking “what is this person on!?” but you don’t say anything because you know they’re going to have something to say back and retaliate and are way too stubborn to even consider what you are saying, so you just let it be and stay SILENT! Just takes way too much effort to communicate with people like that and you end up just leaving them in their own world. I think a lot of us that don’t have the energy let those people be and keep thinking how they want to which fuels them to continue to think that the way they think is right. So its like an endless cycle. And they get more and more confident as more and more people just let it be. Because if this many people have listened to what they say and don’t tell them otherwise then the more confidence or leverage they gain if someone does confront them. They think ‘I can’t be wrong cus I’ve never been wrong in the way I think’. WRONG!! And like you think whether you should feel sorry for these people because you know that other people must also think that they are a bit messed but don’t say anything to them (like I believe real friends tell each other wassup). But then again no, there is absolutely no reason to feel sorry for them because they are feelin’ damn good about themselves.

By: Mafa

Mafa — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 21:04:36 +0000

i’m related with those PEOPLE and am friends with those PEOPLE. refering to your analogy of whining children in the mall it just so happens that they let their children throw those tantrums in public and play with whatever they want and call me a “neurotic” mother when i dont let my kids do the same.

By: krissy

krissy — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 18:30:37 +0000

I am so glad to know we aren’t the only ones to know those PEOPLE lol Isn’t it sad that we all know we have to let them be. So once again they continue to get their way… *sigh* so tired of it. Silly unnecessary stress indeed. Thanks for sharing.

By: Flo King

Flo King — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 17:09:22 +0000

LOL I think I know I few of those PEOPLE… and I actually try to stay away from them. But when they are my friends and God knows I have a few of them like that, I don’t really have the energy to fight them – just let them be. Granted I have my own problems to deal with. Too old to be taking on that kind of silly stress.