Written by krissy November 24th, 2009 | Published in Broken Heel Diaries | 2 Comments
“You dont have to hold on to the pain, to hold on to the memory.”
- Janet Jakson
When I saw this quote today, it really made me think. So often, when I hold on to memories with people that may have been hurtful, those memories are accompanied with pain. Reading this made me realize, that it is possible to hold on to the memories without holding the pain as well. Much easier sasid than done, but from this day on I will try to do that as well. Sometimes I put the pain and the memories aside, when the reality is that all those memories weren’t bad.
Have you felt this way before?






this is a very very difficult thing to do as you hold on to a certain memory BECAUSE of the pain. so the memory is the pain itself i guess is what im trying to say but this is def something worth exploring. anything to make u grow as a person. like Deepak Chopra says “happiness is our natural state, we just interfere.”
Very difficult, sounds really good though. The memory is the pain, but sometimes you have had some great memories despite the pain. Thank you for sharing the quote.