Comments on: What was he thinking?

By: krissy

krissy — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 20:55:30 +0000

That’s what I said… lol I mean I can take myself on trips as I do, but I ‘ll be damned if a guy EXPECTS ME to take him on trips… lol

By: Keli

Keli — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 20:54:15 +0000

And shouldn’t he be the one taking you on trips? I’m just saying…

By: krissy

krissy — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 16:50:53 +0000

Nadine you totally made me laugh, with the running the other way line lmao. It was a lack of maturity to me too. Thanks for the tip, will surely keep in mind. NEXT !!! LMAO

By: krissy

krissy — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 16:49:52 +0000

Lowe you are so right, what’s even funnier is I don’t really care what he thinks. I just think that his game was stupid. I also think that he was trying to make me think my answer was incorrect.

I love how you said this “If anyone should be testing anyone, he’s the one who’s being tested…you’re a lady, you’re giving HIM the chance.”

Thanks for reading !

By: nadine

nadine — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 16:39:23 +0000

test = serious insecurity! i would run fast the other way if i were you! i think people are constantly “testing” each other in more or less conscious ways, example observing behaviour like you said, but to come out and say “that was a test, you failed” shows a serious lack of maturity to me. he wants to make you feel bad for being honest (and perfectly reasonable to anyone normal) and that is not a good sign. who knows what else is lurking in the depths of this man’s ego, watch out!!

By: Lowe

Lowe — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 16:24:13 +0000

Test? He’s deciding what category to place you in. (hoe, giver, strong independent woman, potential for future) Your response is what should come natural when asked a stupid question like that. His response to you was his way of trying to manipulate you to believe you didn’t respond correctly or to his wishes. Its great that you stood up for your standards and he’ll respect that. Depending on what he’s looking for though, he may just up and keep it moving based on the fact that you’re ‘not that girl’ who’ll do anything for him. There’s many out there who will so if he doesn’t smarten up and work a little harder at trying to impress you, cut his ass off…

If anyone should be testing anyone, he’s the one who’s being tested…you’re a lady, you’re giving HIM the chance!

xoxo,

Lowe