Comments on: Business etiquette: create your own lane http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/2009/11/30/business-etiquette-create-your-own-lane/ Online Lifestyle Magazine for Fitness, Beauty, Fashion & More Sun, 12 Feb 2012 18:56:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: krissy http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/2009/11/30/business-etiquette-create-your-own-lane/comment-page-1/#comment-579 krissy Tue, 01 Dec 2009 18:56:55 +0000 http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/?p=1950#comment-579 You are right, RR, I do need to call her out for my sake. I just need to figure out a way to do it calmly without being dramatic.You are so right, I will be associated with her, although we no longer speak. We did discuss the three strike rule :-( This wasn't for her, I seem to keep a lot of people around that really shouldn't be. I have removed all ties long time ago... Didn't say anything about it either. lol What was your situation? Was it similar? Thanks for reading and sharing You are right, RR, I do need to call her out for my sake. I just need to figure out a way to do it calmly without being dramatic.You are so right, I will be associated with her, although we no longer speak. We did discuss the three strike rule :-( This wasn’t for her, I seem to keep a lot of people around that really shouldn’t be. I have removed all ties long time ago… Didn’t say anything about it either. lol What was your situation? Was it similar?

Thanks for reading and sharing

]]> By: krissy http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/2009/11/30/business-etiquette-create-your-own-lane/comment-page-1/#comment-577 krissy Tue, 01 Dec 2009 18:19:44 +0000 http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/?p=1950#comment-577 Bella girl, let me tell you that was foul, still is. Worst part is this is not a recent story. Someone asked me a my point of view on her yesterday, they wanted to hire her for a gig. I didn't want to speak about the bad so I said nothing. However I had to vent, so I decided to write about it. Thank you for the compliment, I just hope that she one day realizes that what she is doing is wrong. I also hope that no one else has to go through this. Maybe it was just something against me. Who knows ! Bella girl, let me tell you that was foul, still is. Worst part is this is not a recent story. Someone asked me a my point of view on her yesterday, they wanted to hire her for a gig. I didn’t want to speak about the bad so I said nothing. However I had to vent, so
I decided to write about it. Thank you for the compliment, I just hope that she one day realizes that what she is doing is wrong. I also hope that no one else has to go through this. Maybe it was just something against me. Who knows !

]]> By: RR - HLBB http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/2009/11/30/business-etiquette-create-your-own-lane/comment-page-1/#comment-573 RR - HLBB Tue, 01 Dec 2009 17:42:53 +0000 http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/?p=1950#comment-573 Okay. You NEED to call her on this. Not for her sake but for yours. Because you've tried to be a friend, you have left your good (business) name vulnerable and (somewhat) associated with hers. Should she ever try to pull this stunt with one of her new "friends" (i.e. your friends and contacts) they will associate her behaviour with you and you are much too professional for that. We discussed the "3 strikes rule" I have for friendships on Twitter (remember? Was that convo about her?)...so I don't know how much you have invested in this particular friendship. But I would remove all ties from her (Facebook, twitter, networks) you don't need to make a huge announcement about severing ties, but I think it would be good to put some distance between the two of you... (smiles) can you tell that I may have had some, ahem, experience with this matter? *wink* RR Okay.

You NEED to call her on this. Not for her sake but for yours.

Because you’ve tried to be a friend, you have left your good (business) name vulnerable and (somewhat) associated with hers. Should she ever try to pull this stunt with one of her new “friends” (i.e. your friends and contacts) they will associate her behaviour with you and you are much too professional for that.

We discussed the “3 strikes rule” I have for friendships on Twitter (remember? Was that convo about her?)…so I don’t know how much you have invested in this particular friendship. But I would remove all ties from her (Facebook, twitter, networks) you don’t need to make a huge announcement about severing ties, but I think it would be good to put some distance between the two of you…

(smiles) can you tell that I may have had some, ahem, experience with this matter? *wink*

RR

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]]> By: Bella http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/2009/11/30/business-etiquette-create-your-own-lane/comment-page-1/#comment-568 Bella Tue, 01 Dec 2009 04:27:51 +0000 http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/?p=1950#comment-568 That's just foul! You need to give her a life lesson and tell her that's just not the way to go about networking. If she wanted help, she just has to ask and not act sneaky and pretend to be helpless and do that crap to you! She probably has been doing that for a long time, probably heard about you and your success from SOMEBODY else and you are just part of that chain (why am I so livid!) I HATE conniving people; she clearly singled herself out as a hater by doing that, can't leave your contacts alone and has to go and grab them for herself. People like that will never be half as successful as you are!! That’s just foul! You need to give her a life lesson and tell her that’s just not the way to go about networking. If she wanted help, she just has to ask and not act sneaky and pretend to be helpless and do that crap to you! She probably has been doing that for a long time, probably heard about you and your success from SOMEBODY else and you are just part of that chain (why am I so livid!) I HATE conniving people; she clearly singled herself out as a hater by doing that, can’t leave your contacts alone and has to go and grab them for herself. People like that will never be half as successful as you are!!

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