Remember the crazy obsessed guy I blogged about a few weeks back. The one who is a friend of the family and after a week professed his undying love for me. He called today, not sure why I picked up. I think I am used to just picking up the phone when it rings. Can you believe this guy had the nerves to tell me that he thinks I made a bad decision of not talking to him. He told me that I must not have been in my right mind, and that I should think things over. HUH ? He talked for 20 minutes trying to explain to me that he loves me, and that he understands that I may be going through a stressful time but it was no reason to push him away. STRESSFUL TIME? LMAO Does he really not think it has nothing to do with him?!
It took everything in me, not to tell him the truth about why him and I could never be. I didn’t want to hurt his feelings but it seems that is what he wanted me to do. I just kept repeating “It’s not going to work between us EVER” “I am not ready for all of this stuff you are bringing my way, I have a lot of things going on in my career that I need to focus on”. It was all true, I just didn’t mention what exactly about him I didn’t like.
Do you think I should have told him those things, or did I do the right thing by not attacking his character?
What really bothered me is that he told me he went to see my family and told them I didn’t want to speak to him anymore. He tried to make them feel sorry for him. That was a very low blow. WHO DOES THAT?
Anyway, just thought I would keep you posted. Conversation ended with him telling me that although I was not interested in him he really liked me and wanted to call once in a while to say hi. I just wanted to end the conversation so I just agreed.
ANYWAYS…
