Comments on: Sex on the first date? Wrong girl my friend.

By: krissy

krissy — Mon, 21 Dec 2009 03:48:19 +0000

So funny that you went through almost the same situation Suzie, the most important part I think is sticking to your morals regardless. You were able to do that, so I think you won. They do know exactly what they are doing, hence why I feel they should just say it.

By: krissy

krissy — Mon, 21 Dec 2009 03:46:44 +0000

Linda, I have no idea what he was thinking. I wasn`t looking for anything serious either, but that text thew me off. I like that line “You have to keep dancing until you have the right rhythm together”, well said.

By: krissy

krissy — Mon, 21 Dec 2009 03:45:32 +0000

Keli, me too. I wish more men were upfront. Maybe you are right, either way NEXT lol No love lost but keep it moving.

By: Keli

Keli — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 04:18:10 +0000

Hmmm…interesting.

I can respect a man that is upfront with what he wants…

but for some reason, I read his text a little bit differently, yes he was not forth coming, but it almost seemed as though holding to your moral standards may have earned you his respect… or maybe I’m wrong.

By: Linda

Linda — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 18:51:52 +0000

I have to say is that WOW!! What the heck was he thinking? I always thought it was even questionable to give a kiss on the first date? I guess my little girl innocence is coming out. Was he confused with his last weekend’s tart from the bar which he got his booty call from. I am glad you made the decision that was right for you in this situation. I think players need to play and get it out of their systems. I have had enough of players. I think when a player approaches a keeper (someone who want a relationship which could be open to marriage) it throws the balance off in the universe. Is there not enough women out there that actually love and care about themselves to want to be in a relationship before sleeping with another person? The love dance is an interest one. You have to keep dancing until you have the right rhythm together. In the end it is worth it to have love so keep trying. I know I am….:)

By: SIKK

SIKK — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 18:17:35 +0000

OMG ahhahahahahahah!!
Okay I’m laughing for two reasons:
1. Because I’m on the same page as youà
2. I experienced something VERY similar to that a month ago!

We just went in the movies & I ended up at his place watching an excellent french movie..and came the time where he started playing with my mind. I think that’s what that dude you met did by repeating that he wasn’t expecting sex. He was. They’re mind are twisted.
The guy then asked me…ÉDo you wanna go home, cause IDK”
At this very moment, I knew what he had in mind & I played his game.
I ended up sleeping at his place since it was very late and I was tired…he started playing w/ my hair and all that..I knew he wanted it. And he didnt get it. Matter of fact…WE DONT TALK ANYMORE! HAHA He called like 2 weeks later, I called once, then he started saying that he would call me back (knowing he wouldnt) and that’s that.

Lol men, know exactly what they’re doing girl! ahahhahaa
It’s not my type to play with them..cuz teasing them too much is a turn off haha, but hey they are the ones putting the cards on the table. F*ck U. haha