Comments on: I almost have everything I want but I still feel incomplete http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/2009/12/28/i-almost-have-everything-i-want-but-i-still-feel-incomplete/ Just another WordPress weblog Fri, 10 Sep 2010 15:03:03 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: krissy http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/2009/12/28/i-almost-have-everything-i-want-but-i-still-feel-incomplete/comment-page-1/#comment-1004 krissy Sat, 09 Jan 2010 16:27:46 +0000 http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/?p=2244#comment-1004 Jen, I am glad to know that I was not the only one, and that in sharing I was able to help you realize that as well. I don't think I have so much given up, as much as chosen not to focus on that aspect of my life right now. I am married to my career at this point. You are absolutely right, we have to love ourselves enough to not NEED a man in our lives but we can love ourselves enough to maybe want one?! Thank you for sharing, thanks for your compliment. Jen, I am glad to know that I was not the only one, and that in sharing I was able to help you realize that as well. I don’t think I have so much given up, as much as chosen not to focus on that aspect of my life right now. I am married to my career at this point. You are absolutely right, we have to love ourselves enough to not NEED a man in our lives but we can love ourselves enough to maybe want one?!

Thank you for sharing, thanks for your compliment.

]]> By: Jen http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/2009/12/28/i-almost-have-everything-i-want-but-i-still-feel-incomplete/comment-page-1/#comment-999 Jen Fri, 08 Jan 2010 23:27:12 +0000 http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/?p=2244#comment-999 You pretty muched just summed up my life - and in fact, i feel better knowing that someone else is actually going through the same thing. Not because misery loves company, more that, maybe we are really the norm but are just hiding in the closet (not w R. Kelly) because society has painted the picture of what "normal" is. It's kinda crazy but I always use Halle Berry as an example. She had such bad relationships or none at all, highly successful, gorgeous, great personality! And it's not till she is in her 40's does she find love and have a baby. I think sometimes you have to just get so frustrated by the situation and GIVE UP! Except that you are going to only have yourself as company for eternity! lol. I think once we love ourselves enough to not NEED a man in our lives...is usually when the RIGHT one shows up. Self love - its the secret ingredient. Now if i could only take my own advice.... haha! amazing blog, i so love it! Jen You pretty muched just summed up my life – and in fact, i feel better knowing that someone else is actually going through the same thing. Not because misery loves company, more that, maybe we are really the norm but are just hiding in the closet (not w R. Kelly) because society has painted the picture of what “normal” is. It’s kinda crazy but I always use Halle Berry as an example. She had such bad relationships or none at all, highly successful, gorgeous, great personality! And it’s not till she is in her 40’s does she find love and have a baby. I think sometimes you have to just get so frustrated by the situation and GIVE UP! Except that you are going to only have yourself as company for eternity! lol. I think once we love ourselves enough to not NEED a man in our lives…is usually when the RIGHT one shows up. Self love – its the secret ingredient.

Now if i could only take my own advice…. haha!

amazing blog, i so love it!
Jen

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