Written by krissy January 28th, 2010 | Published in Broken Heel Diaries | 5 Comments
There are so many ways to describe what a soulmate is, I think everyone has their own definition. According to Wikipedia a soulmate is:
A soulmate is somebody with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, and/or compatibility. A related concept is that of the twin flame or twin soul – which is thought to be the ultimate soulmate, the one and only other half of one’s soul, for which all souls are driven to find and join. However, not everyone who uses these terms intends them to carry such mystical connotations.Do you believe in soulmates? Have you met your soulmate?
I was speaking to a friend of mine today who lives overseas, just catching up on everything. He was talking to me about a girl he had recently met and how “in like” he was with her. He mentionned that it was the first time he felt that way about a girl other than his ex from 20 years ago who is still to this date his “soulsister”. He says that even now they speak once a week, and when they meet once in a while they fall in love all over again. I thought it was so cute to hear a guy believe in having a “soulsister”. So I had to ask him why he wasn’t with her, he said the only reason why he hadn’t married her was because of the distance between them.
Whether or not you believe in soulmates, the thought of having this deep connection with someone, falling in love all over again everytime you are together, that is special. I didn’t know that people walked away from that kind of connection. I mean if it is so special and nothing else can match it, why wouldn’t you want it in your life. I think I met my soulmate before, we fall in love everytime we see each other no matter how long it has been since we have seen each other. Something magical. Just like the picture we stand above it all, in our own place, connected.
Have you ever met someone who made you feel this way? Are you with them? If not why aren’t you with them?
Just curious to see what everyone thinks.
" -krissy
I haven’t met my soulmate yet, but I used to believe there was one for everyone and to some point I still believe there is one person for everyone out there. That one person that you just click with, that you love more every day, the person who gets you in ever way, that person you just automatically connect to and that person that no matter how far apart you are from each other every time you see one another you fall in love all over again. If I had met my soulmate and they lived across the world, I still wouldn’t let them go, I would go the distance for my soulmate if it meant it’s the only way we would be together. If distance is what’s keeping someone apart then maybe that person isn’t his or her soulmate. People can live their whole lives without ever meeting their soulmate. You know, reading your post and writing this…I change my answer. Yes I believe everyone has a soulmate but it doesn’t mean that because one does, one will necessarily meet him or her. But if you do, never let them go!
I believe in soulmates…the feeling of falling in love with them each time you see them no matter how long it’s been …the feeling is priceless and no matter the miles , sea’s hardships you have at the end of the day you will fight for them because if they have that power to make you feel connected ….you have to fight for it.
I liked reading through your different thoughts, because I feel the same. One moment I don’t believe in soulmates and the other I do. I would never want to let go of my soulmate either, but sometimes certain things are beyond your control. Thank you for commenting.
Yes you do have to fight for it… I had all of those things. There is only so much fighting one can do before leaving it up to fate. I guess in the end, what is meant to be will be. I often think of how sad I will be if I never feel that way with anyone else and am forced to settle. Let’s hope for the best. Thank you for reading and commenting.