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He just got out of a relationship Posted by: krissy

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I have been having this discussion with my friends, thought I would see what you guys think. I am looking for some input.

Here is the scenario, met a guy, he’s great so far. So much in common. For the sake of doing things differently then I have in the past, I am taking things VERY SLOW !! I am enjoying this speed. Everything about him seemed SO GREAT, so I knew there had to be something wrong. I found out that 3 months ago, he got out of a serious relationship of 5 years and he was dumped. Now, here is my question for you: How long do you think it takes a man to get over his past serious relationship? Clearly a few months is too short… At the fear of becoming a rebound I am moving cautiously.

How would you deal with this? Would you run for the exit as fast as you could? or would you give it a chance? Can you say broken heel moment ?!

by krissy on Feb 10, 2010 • 6 Comments

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I would give it a chance, but I would proceed with caution. Too many things can go wrong in this scenario. He may be the rare exception, but men who have had their hearts broken tend to take it out on the next girl so I wouldn’t invest too much in this one.
http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com krissy

Sounds like good advice. You are right, it has the potential to be a very awful scenario. Who knows what can happen. I am going to see what happens, so far so good, I am enjoying all the dates
http://www.milkandcoco.ca amy

Krissy – When I met my now husband, I was 6 months out of a 5 year relationship and he was 4 months out of a 7 year relationship. We took things slow, and fell in love and now we are 7 months into our marriage. You never know what can happen. Keep an open mind, and good luck!
http://fredasvoice.blogspot.com Freda

When I met Vince he had been separated for a few days. We hooked up on December 26th and they broke up December 13th.

We have been together almost 10 years.
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Amy, that is amazing. I guess the key thing here is to take things slow and that if its meant to be no matter being fresh out of a relationship, things could work out. I will keep you posted. Thank you for reading and sharing.
http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com krissy

Really, its so inspiring to know that for so many people that didn’t hinder their new relationship. Gives me hope. YAY ! Thank you for sharing.

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