Early this week, I wrote a post on settling and your thoughts on settling here. It seems that from the responses I have gotten, no one thinks that settling is the best thing to do. I don’t believe in settling either, but I can’t help but wonder what if you don’t settle for Mr. Good Enough but the guy you are waiting for never comes along. Would you prefer to be alone or be with Mr. Good Enough?I don’t want to settle ever, in my personal relationships or my love life. I want the sparks, the chemistry, the perfect fit, the butterflies… I want all of that. I know it exists because I have had it before. Question is now, will I find that with someone else? I know that I am not willing to be with someone for the rest of my life just for the sake of being with someone.I guess in a nutshell what I am saying is that I am either waiting for the feeling that I once had, or trying to find that feeling again. One thing is for certain in 2010 its a lot less about waiting then it is to see if it’s out there, that’s is for sure. So far so great, I must say. I am a hopeless romantic and I hope that I do find that feeling again.
Do you think you can find the feelings of the one who steals your heart, and gives you butterflies with more than one person? Do you think there is more than one person who can be your match?
