http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/2010/02/10/my-thoughts-on-settling-for-mr-good-enough/ Online Lifestyle Magazine for Fitness, Beauty, Fashion & More Sun, 12 Feb 2012 21:37:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/2010/02/10/my-thoughts-on-settling-for-mr-good-enough/comment-page-1/#comment-1896 krissy Wed, 10 Feb 2010 20:06:59 +0000 http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/?p=2751#comment-1896 Thanks for sharing, I guess in the end it comes down to that either surrendering and trusting that our decision was the right one, or possibly wait forever. *sigh* lmao if only it was possible to always get our way. Thanks for sharing, I guess in the end it comes down to that either surrendering and trusting that our decision was the right one, or possibly wait forever. *sigh* lmao if only it was possible to always get our way.

]]> http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/2010/02/10/my-thoughts-on-settling-for-mr-good-enough/comment-page-1/#comment-1890 Carolyn Wed, 10 Feb 2010 18:56:54 +0000 http://www.thebrokenheeldiaries.com/?p=2751#comment-1890 Don't settle...it's out there, it's real and it's worth waiting for....but in the mean time have fun! I do believe though that the butterflies later don't stop fluttering completley but as you grow together instead of the exciting butterfly feeling you feel safe, warm, and for me anyway I like my relationship with my husband so much more now than in the begining. We've gone through alot! and if I could go back in time and do anything different, I would not be so afraid to "let go and totally surrender my heart and soul" this was a second marriage for me after being totally devastated that "Mr. Right #1" wasn't at all the person I believed him to be so it's been really hard for me to believe that "Mr Right #2" is "really" all that I believe him to be..it's still hard and we've been together for 22 years now! Lol. So, my advice to you and to myself (and this is a constont battle for me!, still) Surrender...the worst that can happen is that you get your heart broken, broken hearts do mend and it really is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all, it's better, it's just not always easy!!! Don’t settle…it’s out there, it’s real and it’s worth waiting for….but in the mean time have fun! I do believe though that the butterflies later don’t stop fluttering completley but as you grow together instead of the exciting butterfly feeling you feel safe, warm, and for me anyway I like my relationship with my husband so much more now than in the begining. We’ve gone through alot! and if I could go back in time and do anything different, I would not be so afraid to “let go and totally surrender my heart and soul” this was a second marriage for me after being totally devastated that “Mr. Right #1″ wasn’t at all the person I believed him to be so it’s been really hard for me to believe that “Mr Right #2″ is “really” all that I believe him to be..it’s still hard and we’ve been together for 22 years now! Lol. So, my advice to you and to myself (and this is a constont battle for me!, still) Surrender…the worst that can happen is that you get your heart broken, broken hearts do mend and it really is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all, it’s better, it’s just not always easy!!!

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