Why are you so happy? It’s a choice!

Written by Linda March 12th, 2010  |  Published in Broken Heel Diaries  |  5 Comments

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I have had to changed my outlook on life over the past couple of years.  Perception is everything.  It’s like changing your old outdated glasses for the newest trendy style that goes with everything you own.  I really noticed how I starting shining my light differently to the world when people started telling me.  I attended a potluck before just Christmas.  Someone I don’t really interact with on a regular basis jump into my conversation and said to me, “Oh Linda!  You are just too positive.”  I laughed it off and continued chatting.  I have been also told I’m a firecracker and I don’t remember you being this chirpy.  These comments are all confirmations I made the right choice to be happy.

I have learned to be grateful for absolutely everything that is in my life.  It really doesn’t matter what obstacles you are currently dealing with.  You have to know it will pass.  There is a lesson for you to learn and grow from it.  I think life lessons are so much harder than any academic classes.  If you think that you have nothing to be thankful I challenge you to do this exercise.  Start a Joy Journal for 60 days. Write in a notebook everyday for the next 60 days what brought you joy each day.  Your entry doesn’t have to be long.  Just a few words.  It could be a picture of a smiley face because a stranger gave you one that day or that you didn’t receive any bills in the mail or a coworker brought you a coffee that you didn’t expect.  I started doing this exercise back in September and was amazed how much goodness touches me everyday.  It’s truly a celebration of happiness!!


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5 Comments

  1. Sher, March 12, 2010:

    Loves this post ;) i will definitely try this out! thanks linda :)

  2. krissy, March 12, 2010:

    Great post Linda, I can learn so much from it. I think I want to try the challenge also. What a great idea.

  3. Linda, March 13, 2010:

    Hi Sher & Krissy,

    It’s a great way to learn gratitude. I find as the days go on your list becomes bigger and bigger. Let me know what you think at the end of 60 days…:)

    Linda

  4. Natalie, March 15, 2010:

    I am definitely doing the Joy journal and I’ll let you know how it goes!

    xxo

  5. Linda, March 16, 2010:

    Great Natalie. I can’t wait to see what everyone has learned at the end of the 60 days. I am still doing mine too!!!

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