Often the Goddess starts challenging this kind of complacency with a gentle tap on your shoulder, asking quietly, “Do you want some help?” At which point, if you’re like I was, you’ll say, “No thanks, I’m having a really good time!” Eventually she hits you in the back of the head, and perhaps you again refuse help: “No, get out of here. I’m having a really good time!” Finally she sticks her stiletto in your heart chakra like a pre-op transvestite while putting cigarettes out on your body and demands, “Okay, are you ready to change now?”  Basically, when destiny calls, we don’t always go willingly. I certainly didn’t.   – Kelly Cutrone