Not sure how this post came about but I just started writing and this is what happened ! Just some thoughts…

1. If you say you are going to do something, please do it. I understand that things happen sometimes, but your word means a lot, so please make sure to keep it as such.

2. Communicate with me, I guarantee you that the reaction you have in your mind of me is 100 X worse than the way I would really handle the situation. Try me.

3. We are going to disagree sometimes that’s normal, but how you choose to deal with it is really important. Don’t dismiss the issue as something stupid, instead try to work with me as a team to see how we can get past it.

4. I understand that you have things to do and the world doesn’t revolve around me. All I ask in return of me being so understanding is that when it comes time for me, that you really make it about me.

5. Don’t take my kindness for weakness, sure I notice you are lying to me sometimes. I don’t always say something about it because I don’t feel like arguing, please don’t make it a habit.

6.  I want to meet your friends, it doesn’t mean that I think you are going to marry me. I just want to meet the people that are in your life. Not doing this results in me thinking that there is a reason why I can’t meet them… Is there?

7.  Just as you are analyzing all my actions to see if I “fit” or if I am “good” for you, just remember that I am doing the same. Always put your best foot forward for me, I will never settle for less. I want to always be treated like your princess.

8. Sometimes I act very strong and really inside I am like a huge teddy bear that needs a shoulder to lean on. You may not always thinks so but sometimes I just need your shoulder to lean on.

9. Never forget that actions speak louder than words, if you have fancy talks make sure you can back it up.

10. Love me wholeheartedly or leave me immediately. I promise to always do the same.