reading material begining to seep into your sex life?
There’s something blissfully sinful about peeling back the pages of a romance novel day or night, and immersing yourself in a well deserved guilty pleasure. But when does this harmless reading material begin to seep into your sex life? One would imagine the lustrous words and more than detailed play by play, would coincide nicely with a romp in the bedroom, but it may be having quite the opposite effect.
Taking a spontaneous or even a designated weekend getaway with your partner, can usually guarantee a few days of frisky business. But what’s innocently hiding in your suitcase might end up spoiling these plans before the lingerie even makes it out of your carry-on.
The romance novel, usually a popular travel item for women filled with page upon page of emotional foreplay, may be helping you pass the time, but eventually pass on a sexual encounter. A concept seldom analyzed but quickly understood if you’re a frequent flyer so to speak. Overtime, you may find yourself swapping laundry and love making for Lance romance himself.
Overindulging is a hard habit to break, especially if erotic stimulation is waiting at your fingertips whenever the mood strikes. The key to maximizing the effortless literary foreplay from your novel and translating it into to your own spicy love scene is CONTROL. If you find yourself mentally climaxing toward a sinful paragraphs end, attempt to restrain yourself, if only to drag your partner away from their cell phone long enough to create your own ending. Whether you’re at home, or in a suite at the Four Seasons there’s never an easier way to combine fiction with non-fiction.
3 Juicy tips to get things started…
1. Beginner’s guide: Never perused through a naughty novel? Take a trip to Chapters and saunter through the isles letting your eyes do the picking.
2. Set the scene: At the opportune time when your lover is within reach, use your novel to get the juices flowing. Once you’re warmed up, it’s time to unveil your fictional self.
3. Play teacher: Reading aloud has never been so educational. Take turns reading the most erotic exerts to one another. Before long, the reading comprehension is sure to play out.
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