My Awakening – Dear BHD…
The numerous challenges and changes that seemed overbearing weren’t without reason. When you log on to BHD you are witnessing my growth, which is essentially how BHD came to be. I figured if I kept writing I would get over my then heartbreak and post by post my laptop and wordpress would nurture me into...
Make your own Naughty List
Get ready to celebrate all of the sexiness this incredible year had to offer because it’s time to try something daringly different. Set aside your preconceived notions of seasonal stress and hectic holiday hiccups by re-living the best of 2011. The year has surely brought some memorable moments for you and your lover(s), so why...
How to be a Sexy Sleeper
Imagine yourself laying in bed, ready to escape into a lucid dream with your lover comfortably tucked-in beside you. In this moment, there is a slim possibility that your thoughts and actions are focused on exuding a sexually vibrant aura. After all, the combination of a long day, lack of showering, bad case of the...
Trimming your Tree, Down South
For centuries we’ve told holiday stories of traveling to the North Pole for delicious treats and soft snowy adventures. What a miraculous imaginary land we’ve created for ourselves to dream about over the holidays. However, with all of the excitement centred around the northern parts, have we forgotten to maintain ourselves below the equator by slipping into...
For the Sake of your Sex life, say YES to YOGA.
An intriguing thought came to me while extending into downward dog one sensational afternoon in class… The practice of yoga is a wonderfully organic gift from the workout gods. The concept is quite simple; you progressively work to physically and mentally train yourself to live a clearer and more balanced lifestyle. While it sounds extremely...
The Wonderful World of We Vibe
After sitting down with one of the naughtiest teams in adult toys I quickly learned why the world seems to have stopped since the We Vibe 3 was released. To inject a little extra sexy into our evening, Canada’s own Josey Vogels, the undisputed queen of sex and relationships, joined us. The star of the...
Not in the mood to be naughty? Neither is he…
With every excuse under the sun looming at the tip of our tongue, sometimes we just want to say NO to sex. Despite popular belief, getting down and dirty isn’t always wrestling through our minds regardless of our age or even gender. So in this oversexed society polluted with alluring images and erotic lyrics constantly...
I vibe, you vibe, we all vibe!
When people talk about good vibrations, are you tired of your mind constantly jumping back to the popular and still addictively catchy early 90’s tune? I’m sure most of us will shamefully admit this to be true, but with a little help, perhaps we can alter our mental reflex in quite the opposite direction. While...
Eating away at your Libido?
Food is a funny thing, we are either spending time thinking about it, preparing it, or, the best part, enjoying it. But why do we sometimes take it to the next level with ‘just one more little __________’. Feel free to insert whatever indulgence you want, the point is, are we eating away our desire...
Busting your boredom with Burlesque
A woman’s ability to lure in the opposite sex is similar to a theatrical performance; it begins slow and gradually entices the audience to fall passionately in love or lust with the main character. Much like this inevitably dramatic sequence, the physical chemistry between lovers follows a similar screenplay. But, what happens when the storyline...
Can romance novels and romantic getaways co-exist?
There’s something blissfully sinful about peeling back the pages of a romance novel day or night, and immersing yourself in a well deserved guilty pleasure. But when does this harmless reading material begin to seep into your sex life? One would imagine the lustrous words and more than detailed play by play, would coincide nicely...
Keeping your sex life afloat – wet & wild
Let’s start off by eliminating your fantasies of bikini clad lifeguards running dramatically to save you, followed by the most attractive one offering their best lip service. Summer is a time when sexuality runs rampant with hot temperatures and cool beverages, amplifying our burning desires for intimacy. The thought of this sensual season coming to...
Bedroom Diaries: Lights On or Lights Off?
Does glow in the dark lingerie count as having the lights on during sex? I highly doubt it, but for many couples the spotlight seems to shine on the lighting issue more often then not, causing somewhat of a flicker in the bedroom. The days of sexual promiscuity are supposedly upon us, but nevertheless this...
