My Awakening – Dear BHD…
The numerous challenges and changes that seemed overbearing weren’t without reason. When you log on to BHD you are witnessing my growth, which is essentially how BHD came to be. I figured if I kept writing I would get over my then heartbreak and post by post my laptop and wordpress would nurture me into...
Twelve New Years Resolution He Wants You to Make
With 2012 just around the corner, it’s time for a brand new set of New Year’s Resolutions, and we’ve put together twelve that your partner is dying for you to make. Stop dragging him shopping. If you know you’re going on your “I haven’t gone shopping in two months and I need to buy a...
Meet Me Under the Mistletoe
With the holiday season around the corner, it’s time to get festive with your special someone by rendezvousing under the mistletoe. Instead of rushing into sex, why not make kissing its own event? Here’s how you can set the mood with a few seductive techniques that will leave him begging for more: Leave a trail...
Cross-Cultural Dating
Dating someone whose roots are securely fastened in foreign soil? The time difference won’t be the only thing you might be struggling to keep up with. In addition to the lovely things that confuse us when it comes to men, dating becomes more complex when it’s cross-cultural. Here are six points to keep in mind...
BHD Gone Wild: An Interview with Monique Alexander
Monique Alexander is not your typical adult film star. Alexander denies having the identifiers that people are quick to link with the Adult Film Industry: “ big fake boobies, platinum blonde hair, really slutty clothing or a drug habit.” Outspoken and headstrong, the AVN award-winning actress has been in the industry for ten years, getting...
BHD Edmonton: Taboo Naughty but Nice Show
The folks over at the Taboo Naughty but Nice Show invited BHD to this past weekend’s Edmonton Show. A dimly lit event hall filled with exhibitors offering everything from bondage bed sheets to phallic chocolate pops told me that I was in the right place. Guests, arriving in everything from pleather pants and body hugging...
Taboo Naughty but Nice Show
Western Canada’s largest adult trade show is making its way through Edmonton and promises to educate, entertain and inspire its guests with everything from steamy fire shows to provocative seminars. MC and organizer of the Taboo Naughty but Nice Show, Master Sarah Moanies spills the beans on what the sex show is all about. For...
The OTHER Girl: When Your Boyfriend’s BFF is a Girl
She’s that constant threat (or so you think) that lingers every day. She’s the sender behind every text message and the caller behind every ring of his phone (or is that your paranoia setting in?). She’s “that” other girl. She’s your boyfriend’s best friend forever. If your partner’s BFF is “that other girl” here are...
Sizzling Hot Lingerie Trends to Chase Away the Winter Blues
With winter on its way, it may be tempting to pull out the flannel pajama set you got from Aunt May last Christmas. Instead, why not prepare for those cold winter nights by stocking your drawers with hot lingerie trends inspired from the past and the present? Personalize these sizzling lingerie looks, and you and your partner will...
Role play- be a naughty librarian…
Halloween is around the corner and that mousy librarian doesn’t have your man’s imagination running wild because he wants to find out what she’s reading. Rather, he’s probably wondering if there’s a naughty animal beneath that matronly stiff blouse and neatly pressed skirt just waiting to be unleashed. Animalistic by nature, your man likes a...
Travel to Paris
Miracle: Squeezing a month’s worth of clothes and necessities into two small, brown vintage suitcases for my trip to Paris. My packing lists (carefully divided on various pieces of paper and recycled envelope flaps) had been spread throughout the week prior to my departure. Despite my carefully calculated schedule which included my annual health exam,...
Sex & Cancer
“Excuse me doctor, but my vagina is exceptionally dry.” Cancer treatments can lead to awkward conversations about sex and our private members. But talking about one’s sex life to an oncologist or a partner who is undergoing cancer treatments may not be the most comfortable conversation to start. Sex and cancer is that giant in...
10 Tips to Get Over Your EX
It’s been two weeks and you still cannot get over your ex. You find yourself in the comfort of your mumu scooping gigantic spoonfuls of Ben and Jerry’s chunky monkey flavored ice cream while watching “Bridgett Jones’ Diary.” Your phone rings, it’s your girlfriend begging you to go out with her. You barely muster the...
