My Awakening – Dear BHD…
The numerous challenges and changes that seemed overbearing weren’t without reason. When you log on to BHD you are witnessing my growth, which is essentially how BHD came to be. I figured if I kept writing I would get over my then heartbreak and post by post my laptop and wordpress would nurture me into...
Broken Heel Moment: Is he for real?!
It has been a while since I have shared a broken heel moment pertaining to guys I meet. Well here is one for you that is just TOO FUNNY ! I guarantee you will be in stitches. I went out with my girls over the weekend, and I met a guy. We were just about...
Growing into the woman I always wanted to be
I always say this to my friends and they get a good kick out of it “When I am a grown up…” , they always look at me with the craziest side eye as if to say that I am the only one who hasn’t noticed that we are in our late 20′s. Believe me,...
Excuse me … I am healing
As of late, I have been seeing things with different eyes. I have been approaching the same situations with a clear and open mind. Its not something I planned, I guess I am just growing and healing. My spirit decided it was time to heal all of those wounds. I am welcoming the healing, on...
Broken Heel Moment: Say what now?
This was so funny I had to share. My first stop in NYC was to Bleeker St. to go meet up with a friend, he was taking his sweet time so I thought I should go get my nail polish changed since it was chipping. There was a nail shop around the corner. I also...
Broken Heel Moment : Let it go
You want to move on, move past, start a new chapter, let love in. Do yourself a favor and LET IT GO ! Let go of the BS, let go of the drama, let go of the pain, let go of the parasites just let go PERIOD ! I was speaking to one of my...
Broken Heel Moment – I.Need.You.
I need you… I need you in a way that you probably can’t fathom, not in a desperate way, not in a can’t live without you kind of way. I need you to take your place in my life, the place I waited for you to take for so long. You’re there and I am...
Pack light
My move is finally over, I am settled back at my mom’s house. I knew from the jump this wouldn’t be easy, so I am keeping the goal in sight. While I was packing, I went through all of my items and allowed myself to let go of things I felt were weighting me down....
No he didn’t…
So, remember a while back I told you about the guy that I was going out with on a few dates, who purposely forgot to tell me that he was engaged. YEAH ! EXACTLY ! That clown… So I forgave him for being so damn stupid that he would deny the existence of his engagement...
Do the means justify the end…
I have had to pack this weekend, for my move on Tuesday and I have been procrastinating. I found everything under the sun to do but pack… I have been moving every year since I was 19 (when I got kicked out), so for 9 years now. Every year hoping that I find a place...
Handwritten love
Nothing like a handwritten letter, touches the soul ! Last Wednesday My. Mr. left to go back to school, and he mailed me a letter before boarding the plane. Every morning like a little girl, I would rush to the office hoping to see it at my desk. Friday I walked it, and found the...
I love me some him
It takes a lot of courage to love wholeheartedly, it takes a lot of courage to let someone love you wholeheartedly. Somehow I think it just hit me this past Saturday that what we have is just as real to you as it is to me. Don’t get me wrong I knew what we had...
Not everyone who smiles with you wishes you well
Sad but true, not everyone who smiles with you wishes you well. Some people don’t have your best interest at heart and call themselves your friends. Some of them thrive off of seeing you suffer, seeing you sad, or angry.I was reflecting on some past friendships and how some of them came undone. Isn’t it...
