Just Love

I’ve put so many restrictions on love: how and why I should love, how and why I should BE loved. Whatever happened to just loving for the sake of it? Nothing in return, just giving love to others despite what my past notions may have been on giving and receiving love. Until I free myself...
Just…. Friends?
I’ve never kept a diary so this is an entry I’m writing for all of you BHD readers to voyeuristically judge me on. But it’s not you I care who reads it. Friend. The most categorically polarizing word to mean the opposite of lover. Except when you stick those 3-letters in front of it, which...
EX-Factor
I can’t stop thinking about my ex. There, I said it. This is hard for me to come to terms with. It feels like I’ve committed a crime or I’ve done something super shameful. How can I still love someone I dated years ago? How could I still love someone that I haven’t seen or...
Broken Heel Moment: Is he for real?!
It has been a while since I have shared a broken heel moment pertaining to guys I meet. Well here is one for you that is just TOO FUNNY ! I guarantee you will be in stitches. I went out with my girls over the weekend, and I met a guy. We were just about...
10 things I want the men I am dating to know
Not sure how this post came about but I just started writing and this is what happened ! Just some thoughts… 1. If you say you are going to do something, please do it. I understand that things happen sometimes, but your word means a lot, so please make sure to keep it as such....
Question Marks
I haven’t written anything personal in a while, partly because I was busy. The other part was due to the fact that in sharing with some people that I was writing on this blog, they started to dissect what was meant to be my form of expression in release, and make it into a soap...
He said She said
Do you think in your thirties as a woman you have to wait for a man to choose you?


