Posts tagged "Love"

Just Love

I’ve put so many restrictions on love: how and why I should love, how and why I should BE loved. Whatever happened to just loving for the sake of it? Nothing in return, just giving love to others despite what my past notions may have been on giving and receiving love. Until I free myself...
Use Your Heart

Use Your Heart

I’m reading this book and I came across a passage which I thought I’d share as we focus on love. “The psychological and physiological center is the heart. In Hindu Tantras, which are instructions from the gods to humans, the heart is the Anahata chakra, the nerve center that encompasses feeling for another human, feeling...
A Mother's Love; A Lasting Legacy

A Mother’s Love; A Lasting Legacy

I love my daughters with every ounce of my soul. I cannot remember nor can imagine life without them. I would give up my vital organs for them. I want to be able to shelter them from every storm, every insult, every hurt that will ever come their way. This, I suppose, is every mother’s...
Love Diagnosis

Love Diagnosis

My name is Nicole-Natassha and I am a self diagnosed love addict, the only problem is I fall for the wrong men. My bad choices in men have led me to dating Mr. Unavailable, Mr. 30 is the New 20 and Mr. Let’s see where things go. For now I’m going to focus on the...
School of Love: when to drop out – 4 reasons

School of Love: when to drop out – 4 reasons

I have a confession to make. There’s a book titled Why Men Love Bitches and I read it. I read it because I was in the middle of a tumultuous relationship, trying to figure out the man that I had been dating for a year and a half. When I finished reading it, I filed...
Open relationships? No, thanks

Open relationships? No, thanks

There are three types of intimate relationships: The booty call, the open relationship and the committed relationship. The booty call is all about the sex.  You don’t have to see the other person again if you choose not to. There’s no wining and dining, no cute dates or romance. In fact, the less time you...
SummerLoveEnd

SummerLoveEnd

Breeze and trees And all of these Make for a gorgeous summer day When in your eyes I see the skies All the blackness goes away Let’s just be And feel free In our hammocks by the sand In our hearts Is where it starts Strolling hand-in-hand
4 Reasons Why You Should Never Fake an Orgasm

4 Reasons Why You Should Never Fake an Orgasm

I only get to see my friend Mischa every three or four months because we live in different cities. When we do get to see each other, our conversations are usually charged with gossip-worthy stories, dripping with juicy details, vivid enough to make any man blush. During one such visit, Mischa and I were playing...
Guys & Girls – Just Be

Guys & Girls – Just Be

Over a year ago, I vented about being lost in female captivity. Basically, how I thought as women we over analyze everything, and how men didn’t suffer from this malignant and consuming trait. I know this is presumptuous, but at the time that’s how I felt. Luckily, this one guy took the time to put...
A Secret is Out...

A Secret is Out…

Dear BHD, I love this boy and by boy I mean man. I much older man actually. For many this isn’t an issue because love ain’t nothing but a number right? Well that’s not my confession. This is: he’s married. It’s horrible but I didn’t find out until it was too late and deeply in...
Video: Love Liberates - Lessons From A Master

Video: Love Liberates – Lessons From A Master

I watched this video and it brought tears to my eyes; it’s so amazingly inspiring, especially since I’m a new mommy. Watch it, love and be free. We love Maya Angelou, a remarkable woman we admire and hope to resemble.
Go Ask Tania – The Ex-Boyfriend “Best Friend”

Go Ask Tania – The Ex-Boyfriend “Best Friend”

Having issues with the fact that your significant other is still friends with the EX? Is it making you go nuts? If so, this question and answer are for you. Pay close attention and you’ll know exactly what to do. If you have a question, email it to goasktania@thebrokenheeldiaries.com
BHD Mommy: Almost time

BHD Mommy: Almost time

Nine months in and in my body lies 2 heartbeats, 2 sets of lungs, a placenta and a cord that connects my body to a mini belly button. The emotional and mental process has been like riding a wave without any paddling experience.  When I was told that being pregnant was similar to being on...